Marta's Story

Anne Bradshaw • April 9, 2025

A short story for the season


Marta bent over the sewing project in her hands. The last stitches must not be rushed. Liddy would not appreciate a shawl that unraveled as soon as she put it on. Marta never liked long projects. The last stitches were the ones that always told the tale of her impatience. She wanted this scarf to be right, to last, and to be useful. Patience must be applied. 

Marta’s sister Liddy had not been doing well these past few years. She and her son, Tobias lived just inside the gates of Jerusalem. They had a home and small yard where she kept chickens and sold eggs. Liddy spent most of the day sitting in the yard and listening to the gossip. She knew many of the people and things going on that others did not connect.  Marta and Simon often brought in vegetables from their garden for Liddy and her son to keep or sell as they needed.


Marta snipped off the last thread with her teeth and held up the garment for inspection. It wasn’t fancy, but it was useful and would keep Liddy from being chilled on cool nights. She stood up from her place by the window, stepped out into the early morning and checked to see if Simon and the boys had finished gathering the lambs they would take to market. Passover was celebrated that night and they needed get them to the sellers before sundown. 


“I do not understand this law, the killing innocent lambs to pay for sin that never really goes away.” Marta looked at the ones destined for market. She spotted one with a limp. It must have stepped in a hole or something. It would never sell. Only unblemished and healthy lambs would be bought. It was an insult to the Creator to give something that wasn’t perfect. It would have to go back to the pen. And what did it say about her and Simon that they would sell what was meant to come from the hearts of the people? 


Was it really a sacrifice, or was it simply a religious requirement from which they prospered. Something seemed wrong with that. She would discuss it with Simon. He would help her understand.


“Simon! Simon, that one has a limp.” 


“Ugh,” Simon came to where Marta was standing and examined the lamb. 


 “We could carry it and hope it heals by the time the priests examine it.” she suggested


“No, we’ll just put it back.” Simon replied.


“We have a few more to add to this number and then we will be ready to go, gather your things, Marta.” And he began to walk away. 


To his back Marta called, “Religion is good business, isn’t it, Simon?” She surprised herself. She hadn’t meant to say that aloud. She waited for her husband’s admonishment. Held her breath, just a little and waited.


Simon turned scowled at her working out her comment in his mind. “Good business?” Understanding dawning, he smiled a sad smile. Not the reaction she’d expected. “OH, unfortunately you are right about that, my Marta. I know how you love the lambs. If only the Creator would make it possible for a sacrifice to simply remove the transgressions entirely, THEN we wouldn’t need to slaughter all these animals. I see no change in the transgressors after the sacrifices they make.” Stepping back toward her with the lamb in his arms, he confided out of earshot of their boys. 


“Why, during the last festival I saw one rich man buy a lamb for sacrifice, go in and as he come out, Marta, with the blood of the lamb still clinging to the hem of his robe, he actually kick the beggar, Lazarus, out of his way as he pass through the gate!”  Marta clicked her tongue in dismay.


 “See?” she said, “It makes no difference.  However, if the Creator made it possible for one sacrifice to be made for all time, we would have to find a new way of making a living. True?”


“True,” replied Simon, “but it would be worth it if it meant a lasting difference.” 


“What kind of sacrifice would that take, Simon, do you know?”


“Surely a more important one than a little lamb, that’s for sure,” Simon turned and walked back to put the injured lamb into the pen with its mother.


Alexander and Rufus, their sons, brought out the rest of the lambs chosen for market and Marta gathered the food for the journey along with the shawl for Liddy. A half day’s walk was not a long one compared to how long it used to take Simon when he lived in Cyrene. They had met at festival many years ago and over time decided to marry and settle just outside of Jerusalem in the countryside. The idea of raising sheep and growing vegetables was one that had just happened. The house, yard and few sheep were a gift from Simon’s father. Simon in turn was building flocks and saving seed for each of the boys for when they married. 


“Let’s go!” Simon demanded. Marta gathered the food and the gift she’d made for Liddy and they started out. She thought about the new Rabbi she had heard about. Yeshua was his name and he had been walking around teaching and healing people. After a time of walking, Marta turned to Simon and asked,


“Simon, Liddy mentioned a new Rabbi, Have you heard of him?”


“Yes, you mean Yeshua? He is causing quite a stir among the religious leaders. In fact, I saw him and some of his followers in Yazim’s wheat field picking wheat as they walked by. It was on the Sabbath, too!” 


“What were you doing near Yazim’s field on a Sabbath? That is a bit farther away than you should be walking such a day, you know.” 


“So I should let the sheep just get lost because of certain day of the week? Really, Marta?” 


Marta smiled, knowing the sheep did not know what day it was and if they chose to wander off they did not check with the shepherd or the calendar first. “I’m sorry, Simon.” She smiled to take away the sting of accusation that had left her lips a moment ago.  “What did this Yeshua say about his own actions on the Sabbath?”


Simon grinned. “I heard,” he said conspiratorially, “that he told those who accused him of disrespect of the Sabbath, that ‘the Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath! And then, Marta! You would not believe what happened next! Yeshua went into the temple and healed a man on the very same Sabbath day!”


“Simon! That man is going to be in so much trouble if he continues to defy the laws and the teachers!”


From nearby, Alexander added, “Tobias’ friend, Mark said that he heard rumblings of death for Yeshua among the religious leaders after that.”


Marta was lost in her own thoughts and Simon ran ahead to catch a wandering lamb as it neared a drop off in the road. “We are a lot like those sheep, Lord, wandering around oblivious of how close we are to falling off the edge.” 


Just then, Marta heard Rufus and Alexander quoting a psalm as was the custom on the way to Jerusalem for the festival meals…


The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want.  He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside quiet waters.  He restores my soul; He guides me in the paths of righteousness For His name's sake.  Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.  You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You have anointed my head with oil; My cup overflows.  Surely goodness and lovingkindness will follow me all the days of my life, And I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.


“That does not sound like a God who would begrudge a healing on the Sabbath or satisfying a hunger on the way past a grain field.” Marta commented to herself. 


Marta, Simon and the boys continued to talk about Yeshua and the trouble stirring in Jerusalem. As they neared the city they joined other families coming in from the countryside. 


Arriving at the gate, Rufus and Alexander continued on to the sellers to trade in the lambs. They would be treated fairly since they carried their father, Simon’s well-known name. They would meet up again at Liddy’s home. 


Arriving at Liddy’s house, Marta noticed the crowd had grown to a significant size. There seemed to be a lot of people on the streets. Sabbath did not start until sundown, so everyone was trying to get all they could completed before it began. Liddy was in her usual spot in the yard, but something was different about her. 


“Liddy!” Marta called. Liddy turned and smiled and hurried to help carry in the vegetables Marta and Simon had brought. They entered the small home laughing over everyone trying to get through the doorway at the same time. Simon, wise as always, had handed off all he carried and remained outside watching the comical scene from afar. 


“Liddy! You look wonderful! You are well again?” 


“Yes! I was in my yard one day as Yeshua passed by. There was a big crowd and he stopped to speak to them. I went to the edge of the crowd to hear what he said. As he began healing people he healed me as well!” They continued to catch up on all the news until a commotion outside drew Marta’s attention. Stepping out into the sunshine she and Liddy saw many people lining the street. “Simon, what’s going on?” Marta asked.


“A passing dignitary, maybe, let’s go see.” Simon and Marta joined the crowd. They found a place near the front and waited for the important person to pass by. Soon they heard soldiers’ feet in the distance. The scene approaching was no parade for a dignitary. 


“Simon!” Marta whispered “It’s a crucifixion! I don’t want to see this!” But the crowd pressed in to see and there was no way back without physically moving people. Marta decided to stay and endure the spectacle as best she could. She closed her eyes and clutched onto to Simon’s hand, but curiosity won out as the soldiers advanced. She opened her eyes, just a little, and gasped in horror at the plight of a man condemned to die. She had never seen a man so badly beaten and disfigured. “Simon, I can’t even tell what color his hair is for all the blood. And is that a crown…of thorns!? What kind of men do this type of thing?” 


The crowd could be heard discussing the scene and the events of the night before. “Hush, Marta! That is Yeshua!” 

“Where, Simon? Surely he will stop this outrage,” said Marta as she looked around for the famous Rabbi.

“There, the one who is condemned to die. He is Yeshua,” replied Simon sadly.


Marta’s heart sank to her feet and her stomach clenched. Just then Yeshua fell in the street no longer able to continue to carry the heavy wooden cross on his shoulders. 


“YOU!” a soldier yelled. Marta jumped at the sound, so caught up with the sight before her she did not see the advancing soldier until he was upon them. He had Simon by the arm and was dragging him to Yeshua’ s side. Watching in horror, Marta saw the soldier command Simon to pick up the cross and carry it for Yeshua who was struggling to his feet. 


Simon picked up the cross helping Yeshua to his feet at the same time,  he and Yeshua and the company of soldiers continued up the street to Golgotha. 


“NO!” Marta screamed inside her mind, knowing to scream aloud would mean reprimand from the soldiers. She followed as far as she could, struggling through the crowd and then stopped. She noticed a company of other women following and weeping as well. She thought to join them, but the effort was too much. Stunned and in fear she returned somehow to Liddy’s home to wait. She did not remember the journey back. Her mind filled with pictures of Passover which would start soon. Lambs would be slaughtered…Yeshua bloody and bleeding, crucifixions, and Simon’s abduction by the soldiers. Her mind could take no more in…she stumbled blindly to Liddy’s door and fell at the threshold. 


Liddy, hearing the noise, opened the door, and gathered Marta inside. Marta told her sister of all she had experienced as best she could. Liddy brought her a cup of water and together they waited for Simon and the boy’s return. Rufus and Alexander had not arrived yet from the selling the lambs. Hopefully they did not witness she had seen.


They sat together for some time. A storm was coming, the wind whipped outside and the rain was sure to begin soon. The sky drew unnaturally dark. Something terrible was on its way or had already arrived. Marta remembered the Psalm of David the boys were reciting earlier…


Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me... 


The earlier conversation about lambs and sacrifices…flashed through Marta’s mind. 


“What kind of sacrifice would it take?” she remembered asking Simon. 


“The sacrifice…” Marta murmured aloud…


“What?” asked Liddy, her concern for her sister evident. “Marta, did you say something?” 


“I was thinking of a discussion Simon and I had earlier today.” Marta replied.  “Liddy, what do you think? Who is Yeshua?”


Liddy was about to answer Marta when there was a sound at the door. Rufus, Alexander, and Simon stumbled in together out of the wind. Marta was so happy to see him at first she did not see the horror he carried in his eyes.


“Marta”, he gasped and held her close. Then the weeping began. Who started it, she or Simon, didn’t matter they clung as a group with the boys and Liddy and Tobias who had joined them. 


When the weeping was spent, they parted and Marta got a good look at her husband. He was covered in blood not his own and it was now on her and the rest of them as well. “Whose blood is on us, Simon?”


He answered, “Yeshua. It was all over the cross from the beatings he got. When they placed the cross on my shoulders it got on me.” 


“You have splinters in your neck and arms. Sit down and let us remove them and you can tell your story.” 


As Marta and Liddy worked to remove the splinters, clean off the blood and dress the wounds, Simon told of his journey.

“After I was forced to carry the cross, Yeshua and I walked near each other. He was not doing well. At times he leaned on me, yet he seemed determined to complete this journey. That determination alone kept him moving. I’m sure the loss of blood alone would have made a weaker man die before the end. It pained me to look at him. It seemed as we advanced toward Golgotha I noticed more and more the wounds and things that he had endured. He had done no crime, Marta, Liddy, I’m sure of it! He was as innocent as those lambs we sell at the market on festival days! In his eyes, though, what I could see of them, it was as if he carried the weight of the world. 


“The suffering didn’t end there. When we got to the hill, they nailed him to that cross. Can you imagine the rough wood against a torn and bleeding back? To have to push up on the nails just to breathe? Ugh!” Tears leaked from the corners of Simon’s eyes once again.  “There was no one at his side at the end except one man and a few women. Where were all those followers, Marta? The ones who celebrated his arrival and healings and miracles? I’ll tell you! People were there mocking him! Even the religious leaders had nothing compassionate to say! Oh Marta, Liddy…” 


It was Rufus who remembered the prophesy found in the scroll of Isaiah.  “Could he be the one Isaiah talked about when he said ‘So His appearance was marred more than any man And His form more than the sons of men’?” 


Tobias, Liddy’s son entered the conversation. “My friend, John Mark says Yeshua told them this would happen and that in three days he would come back.” 


“Well then,” said Simon, with a deep breath he gathered himself and set aside the grief. He rose from the stool where he sat, “we shall see what happens in three days.” He moved to the window to be sure it was secure against the weather. Liddy and Marta cleaned up the mess and lit the fire. The boys sat and discussed the day’s events and eventually everyone fell asleep to the sound of wind and rain. 


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The wind and rain continued throughout the Sabbath and three days later, John Mark stopped by Liddy’s house with news as Marta and Simon were getting ready to head home.


…The tomb where they buried Yeshua was empty.


They were half way home when Marta noticed a stranger up ahead talking with Simon. The conversation seemed important and the stranger put his arm briefly around Simon in a brief farewell. As the stranger turned to continue his way down a different path, Simon dropped back to be with his family. 


“Who is that? When did he join us?”  Marta asked. “Simon? Are you alright? Who was that man? What did he say?” They had stopped walking and Simon was watching the stranger as he advanced further into the distance. 


With a light in his eyes that Marta had never seen before, Simon grinned and replied, “Marta, if you dare to believe,

 you’ll never guess what he said…”


The End


A final word: This Resurrection season, let us celebrate all that God the Father has done through God the Son to free us from the law of sin and death providing all who believe with the victorious opportunity to be saved, to change our allegiance to the Lordship of Christ and  live according to the  Law of the Spirit of Life. 


By Anne Bradshaw May 2, 2026
Dear Reader, When I was teaching a bible class in a Christian school some years ago, a question came up from one of the students, “Why did Jesus have to die?” In the moment I quickly, summarized the answer as: “So a way could be made for us to go to heaven when we die and be with Him and all those who went before us.” Thinking back now, I wish I could amend my answer. My prayer is that over time, those children came to understand there is much more to the Truth than my simple explanation. I thought I was answering correctly for their age. However, I believe I was mistaken and this is the subject of this blog post. If we think about it, the answer I used is taught all the time, in various ways. The problem is while true in some aspect, that it leaves out a very important aspect of what Jesus has done for us. In fact, that answer is more of a simple side note in comparison to the magnitude of the work accomplished in Christ. The entire truth is what sets people free. What I should have said is: Jesus was the Son of God and the Son of man. He had to be both. It was the plan from the foundation of the world because God knew what Adam and Eve would decide to do in the garden when the Deceiver offered a distorted interpretation of the truth, “Did God really say…” God the Father created humanity anyway. His creation was worth the sacrifice that would be needed to redeem them from the decisions they would make. It was, and is, evidence of His great, great Love for us that this Grace and forgiveness would be offered for us to receive. I should have said that the Old Covenant had a law and that law held people captive because the Deceiver had a hold on any who violated it. He could accuse them and he would be correct. Condemnation was the verdict, according to the law. And the deceiver had great pleasure in carrying out that sentence. He had access to heaven; he was the prosecutor of the people God Loved. But there was one thing that could break that hold, and that, according to the law, was a sinless sacrifice. The Law of Atonement in Leviticus 16 describes the sacrifice of a bull and the scapegoat. The goat would be chosen by lot, and the sins of Israel were placed upon it (symbolically speaking) and then sent out into the wilderness to die. Think now, for a moment, when did Jesus go into the wilderness? Jesus was baptized by John for repentance, yet Jesus lived a sinless life. Why? To identify with humanity. It is in Matthew 4 that Jesus goes into the wilderness to be tempted by Satan. (In the believer’s baptism at conversion, we identify with Christ’s death and resurrection.) There are more correlations, but one of the most telling verse for me comes in Matthew and John: Matt 5:17-18 “Do not think that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish but to fulfill. For truly I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass from the Law until all is accomplished. and John 15:25 “But they have done this to fulfill the word that is written in their Law, ‘THEY HATED ME WITHOUT A CAUSE.' Jesus lived a sinless life. He was sacrificed having taken on all the sins of humanity thus the law was fulfilled, and the ACCUSERS VOICE WAS SILENCED. The Deceiver and Accuser of God’s people no longer had a hold on them. The keys of hell and death are no longer in Satan’s possession. Revelation 1:18 John says, “When I saw Him, I fell at His feet like a dead man. And He placed His right hand on me, saying, “Do not be afraid; I am the first and the last, and the living One; and I was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore, and I have the keys of death and of Hades. Many will say that Jesus did not go to hell. 'There can be much discussion on this (and thankfully our perspectives, while important, are not the key to our salvation). Here is why I think Jesus did go to hell where Satan was and that He did suffer there. The requirement of the Law was spiritual death. Spiritual death is separation from God. A place of torment. Can you imagine a place without the goodness of God? Scripture says Jesus suffered our punishment for humanity's sin (my paraphrase). Could it then be said Jesus experienced a separation from God the Father? Isn't that what happens when people die in a sinful unrepentant state? I know…that is such an offensive idea for some. But let us not reject it just because it is contrary to what we have always accepted, let us truly know the Word of Truth so we will not be confused. And let us not mistake a stubborn loyalty to another’s interpretation over what the Word says in context. If, for the sake of discussion, Jesus did experience a type of separation from the Father, where would that happen? It wasn’t in the tomb, as some suppose, while he was “napping.” We are not separated from God while we nap. We can still experience His goodness. So, when did Jesus experience that separation? On the cross, physically, yes. He did say “I commit my spirit..." Luke 23:46 says this and He is quoting Psalm 31:5 . But I wonder, do you think the law would have been satisfied if the suffering were only on the cross? The Law also indicated punishment included separation, like with the scapegoat which had been required. What did the law require regarding sin and what would it take for sin, and Satan's hold on humanity because of sin, to be dealt with once and for all? Just asking… Jesus was condemned by those who ruled according to the Law. And when punishment came upon Jesus (Gal 3:13), Satan participated in the fulfillment of the law through the willing human participants to the cross and then afterward when Jesus, in his humanity, experienced, for the first time, separation from the Father. Jesus remembered and trusted the Father and knew He would not be abandoned to Sheol (Ps 16:10). And He was right. God the Father did not abandon Him. When the time was right, He sent the Spirit to quicken Jesus and win the victory. for humanity over sin. The law said atonement was needed for sin and the atonement had to be sinless. Jesus who had lived a sinless life, willingly (John 10:15-18)laid it down for humanity. His death, resurrection and ascension, wiped out not only our sin but also the law used of Satan that used it to accuse. Let me say/write that again, what the Son of God did as the Son of man closed any access Satan had before the throne of God to accuse God’s people. Atonement was made, the law fulfilled and set aside. No more condemnation for those who believe and receive it. (Romans 8). (Also, consider Romans 10-11 with all this in mind.) The sad thing is that people don’t realize what Jesus did. Because of this lack of knowledge, they are susceptible to the only weapon Satan now possesses against the people of God. Deception. Many do think He came to make a way for us to go to heaven and they would not be wrong, but there is so much more. Salvation is for now. Living in victory is for now. Forgiveness and Grace is for living now. Think for a moment: What would it be like to live a day when NOTHING negative of the past limiting our obedience to Christ? Consider all bad decisions, trespasses against us having no cringing memories haunting thoughts/evaluations of ourselves, or others. What if it didn’t matter what other thought or said? Not because we didn’t care, but because their opinion/evaluation didn’t change what God said about us or the identity we have as a part of His family, His Church, His kingdom? Imagine a clean slate, freely forgiven and ties cut from preconceptions, misconceptions, searching for significance, looking for validation— What if we didn’t have to be “right” all the time to feel justified? What if a mistake was just a mistake, forgivable, redeemable? What if all of it was simply, gone, forgiven, without impact or influence? What would you feel free to do? Where would you go? What would you say? Who would you help? Who would you forgive? Sounds like heaven, right? It is. It is eternal life and In Him we have that now. The exciting truth is according to Christ and the work He did… We have all of that and more NOW. We have a voice before the Throne of Grace. We have the Word of Truth that divides falsehood from truth, that heals, forgives and changes our dysfunctional thinking, turns our mourning into dancing, replaces ashes with beauty… We have the Holy Spirit to help us when we need it: our counselor, our friend, our teacher. We have the Faith of God within and the ability to choose to believe. We have the ability to choose to forgive, choose love, choose joy, choose goodness, etc… Hebrews 4: 12-16 “Therefore let us be diligent to enter that rest [salvation provided], so that no one will fall, through following the same example of disobedience. For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are open and laid bare to the eyes of Him with whom we have to do. Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. Therefore, let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” When we remain bound by the small thinking of “I’m just a sinner saved by grace” we make small the work Christ did for us. When we believe our only goal is simply to get to heaven, we abdicate our responsibility as members of the Church Jesus is building and the mandate of that Ecclesia (governing body of the Kingdom with an assignment) now. When we say, Jesus will come and make things right or take His people out of the mess they created, we imply that somehow plan A of God did not work because of humanity, making humanity more powerful than God’s plan. This implication is that Jesus did not do the complete work and now Plan B must be put into place. And finally, when we will not allow dialogue about matters of faith, we show a lack of confidence in what we know and the reliance upon what others know. I experienced this in my own journey out of denominational thinking. I studied the Scriptures but remained strictly within the bounds of the denominational doctrine that I had adopted as my own. Thus, my loyalty was not so much with the Word of God as I had thought. My loyalty was in what people had told me about the Word of God according to the “founding fathers of that particular denomination.” This was a hard lesson to take at times. Pridefully, I did not want to think I had been mistaken for so many years and in turn all my efforts to be a “good follower of Christ” were somehow misguided and maybe useless. That would be 22 years of spinning my wheels and getting nowhere for Christ no matter how sincere I was! Ouch. What about the classes I taught! I needed to repent, and I did, but it was a difficult decision. But God! Not only was realizing all this a difficult thing, but also to remove the lenses and see the scriptures without them was frustrating. I kept slipping back into the cliches I’d learned. It took a community of believers and dialogue and study together from different perspectives to finally see what was happening. All of this to say, the stewardship of the Gospel of Christ is important. It leads to the unity of the Church Christ prayed regarding in John 17. But we have to be willing to listen, discuss and come to a consensus. See also Eph 4 Dear Reader, there is so much more regarding the Kingdom and the Church that to go into now would make this an even longer blog. But I’ll leave this for another time or for you to study. My goal is to point out the freedom and victory you as a believer possess now because of Christ. I encourage discussion and study for all of us. We all need someone to whom we are accountable. And The Holy Spirit is good at His job. He faithfully reveals the truth to those willing to see. Behold, how good and how pleasant it is For brothers to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious oil upon the head, Coming down upon the beard, Even Aaron’s beard, Coming down upon the edge of his robes. It is like the dew of Hermon Coming down upon the mountains of Zion; For there the LORD commanded the blessing—life forever. Psalm 133 Grace and Peace Anne
By Anne Bradshaw April 9, 2026
“I feel as bright as a flower garden!” This phrase is included in a book I am currently working on. It has to do with an unexpected gift of colorful clothing. The idea came from an account regarding my grandfather's visit to a neighbor. The story began something like this: "One day "Pat" (my Grandfather) came to the door in to bring some vegetables from the garden." The neighbor went on to relate how embarrassed she was to open the door because she had just gotten out of the shower and had to hurriedly put on whatever clothes were handy before answering the door. The clothes did not match and she did not really pay attention until she was nearly to the door. In fact the colors wildly clashed, and she still had a towel (also colorful) around her wet hair. Today, we would probably just not answer the door, but this was a small town and people did not do that when it was someone they knew. She went on to tell how embarrassed and silly she felt but she decided to open the door anyway expecting my grandfather to make a depreciating comment about how silly she looked (because that was how she felt). She was pleasantly surprised by what my grandfather said, “Why, you look as purty as a garden full of flowers!” That was how I remember my grandparents teasing. They allowed the one being teased to participate without losing face. As far as I can remember, no one left feeling “less than,” but rather “a part of” when jokes were told. Some are so quick to criticize and joke in ways that put others down. Why highlight and tear apart the flaws in the name of humor or“truth in love” or simply to feel superior? Have you noticed the world has become quick to see what is not right. We do want injustice exposed, yes. But not just exposed! As believers, our desire is for justice and to be right with God, to stand for Truth because it is good for us, not just good to us. We were made to be the representatives of Christ upon the earth, so it is difficult to stand silent when injustice is happening. But a balance is needed. To complain and only report what the devil is up to and neglect the report of what God is doing and what He has said in His Word about similar matters in the past, works counter to our desire for righteousness. Likewise, concentrating on the flaws, condemning and highlighting the areas of weakness in others or even ourselves, denies the value of who God says we are and all He has placed within us to accomplish His good purposes. The option is always before us when we hear reports that are negative or discern what is unjust. We must wisely, with the help of the Holy Spirit, know how to respond to these moments. In small and large matters, we can choose to support life or death, literally and figuratively. That power is in our tongue, what we say aloud and think in our hearts. It is in our conversation: blessing or curses, grace or gossip. The power is in our prayers, the Scriptures we remember and those we call on in prayer. God says He watches over His Word to perform it. What Word are we speaking, praying, believing? When my Grandfather's neighbor opened the door to him in her crazy outfit, in that moment, he chose to support life. How? His joking comment cut off erased any opportunity for embarrassment to take hold. The joking comment about the flower garden, found a positive place to land in her heart that did not wound. He made light of the moment, canceling any need for shame, and brought laughter to a memory. Any other response could have caused that woman to cringe for the rest of the day. Instead, she remembered the moment at his memorial service with gratitude and laughter, remembering his kindness. Be a blessing, choose life. Listen to those who recognize the opportunity to apply Truth to negativity. Grace and Peace, Anne Jeremiah 1:12 “You have seen well, for I am watching over My word to perform it.” Romans 8: 6 For the mind set on the flesh is death , but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, Proverbs 18:21: Death and life are in the power of the tongue : and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. see also
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