Puzzle Piece
Cultivate Faithfulness
Dear Reader,
My heart aches a bit where a "puzzle piece" is out of place. It may seem to some that I do not care, because I do not "pine away" regarding the "loss." But that is not it at all, I care deeply. I simply choose not to cultivate that ache, for I know where the puzzle piece is. I celebrate the years I had him within reach, to hug his neck, to talk about deep things, to be silly and joke, to simply hear his voice. I also celebrate a new reality that is also good, because God is good,sovereign and I choose to take the Word of God that says, Cultivate Faithfulness and it makes all the difference.
Cultivate faithfulness, says the Psalm (37:3). In other words, "feed on His faithfulness." Some would say, "Well, how can you say that with a puzzle piece out of place?" I can say that because the puzzle piece has not been destroyed. Father God knew that puzzle piece before it was ever created, knew the comings and the goings, knew the choices made, and loved him through it all.
Is there a "puzzle piece" out of place for you, dear Reader? As a "puzzle piece," I mean, is there something "not right" about a current matter or situation or inclination of the heart (yours or someone else's) that pains and plagues your mind with "would've, should've, could've, maybe if" questions or observations?
I recommend cultivating faithfulness, His faithfulness to love regardless and to look for and find that lost piece. He provides a rest for the weary one, He provides an anchor of hope in Him. Bitterness and anger, grief and pain melt away when we do this. Why? Because the Law of the Spirit of Life does not allow the rules or the interaction from the kingdom of darkness to coexist with His Love. I know from experience, and maybe you do too, that for those who believe, a moment of heaviness cannot coexist with the voice of praise.
Sometimes a reminder is needed, however, especially, when overwhelming circumstances seem to sit on our doorstep waiting for us to let them in.
And sometimes, (and this may be hard for some to hear) the fear, grief, pain, anxiety, or the bondage of codependency can become an emotional equilibrium.
And when we cultivate those things, we feed on the imbalance they induce. A person can become addicted to the imbalance. The presence of the imbalance becomes so "normal" it appears safe. For example, if we are not afraid, we will be taken advantage of. If we are not grieving, we will for get the love. If we are not anxious, we will be careless or forget something, somehow leading to hurt or mistakes. (I'm talking from experience and insight I've gained over the years and been delivered from).
This is a vicious trap designed by the enemy who deceives and it paralyzes a person spinning them in place and distracts from the Voice of God (Psalm 32:7-8). We were not meant to live this way. This is why God instructs repeatedly "do not fear" "trust in Him (Isa 12:2, 26:4)" "Seek the Kingdom first" (Matt 6) "Lean not on your own understanding" (Prov 3:5-6)etc...
We cannot do it alone. We need God. We need the Holy Spirit to comfort, counsel and provide wise strategy. And we need to be with a body of believers that Love Jesus more than themselves.
"Finally, believers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable and worthy of respect,
whatever is right and confirmed by God's word,
whatever is pure and wholesome,
whatever is lovely and brings peace,
whatever is admirable and of good repute;
if there is any excellence,
if there is anything worthy of praise,
think continually on these things [center your mind on them, and implant them in your heart]."
Philippians 4:8 (AMP)
Grace and Peace,
Anne
